Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh, my name is A.......... Singh, 43 years old, 6’4” tall, born and raised in good valued family in Punjab, India. Parent are farmer so Tractors, Animals, tools and Agro equipments were my toys during childhood. Spent around 25 years of my life in various educational institutions to get my education and after that served as a professor for 7 years in Punjab. I moved to Canada in 2005 and got Canadian Citizenship. I am working with BC Transit since 2009 as a bus operator with unionized Government job, good pay and health benefits etc. My ex wife suddenly got separated from me two years ago and she alienated our son and daughter from me. I was very loving, caring and responsible father and husband So it was intolerable for me but Guru’s saved me. Guru Said that ਹੁਕਮਿ ਮੰਨਿਐ ਹੋਵੈ ਪਰਵਾਣੁ ਤਾ ਖਸਮੈ ਕਾ ਮਹਲੁ ਪਾਇਸੀ ॥
Obeying the Order of His Will, he becomes acceptable, and then, he obtains the Mansion of the Lord's Presence. ਖਸਮੈ ਭਾਵੈ ਸੋ ਕਰੇ ਮਨਹੁ ਚਿੰਦਿਆ ਸੋ ਫਲੁ ਪਾਇਸੀ।।
One who acts to please His Lord and Master, obtains the fruits of his mind’s desires. Long walking, exercising to keep body fit and healthy, Farming/,Gardening, driving Tractor, riding Motorcycle, reading, traveling to new places and writing articles in newspapers about spirituality are my some hobbies. I am driving my life car on the road which paved by Guru’s in the forms of teachings to get the destination which is Almighty( Merge with God). So i am seeking a life/car partner who start steering that car/life when I feel tired and make our journey easy, comfortable, enjoyable and we get the destination quickly. I am trying my best to clean my mind with Guru’s teachings and also expect same from my life partner because can’t bear any more betrayal from life partner. I will definitely sacrifice my life for a partner who is same from internally and externally with God blessing especially do not like duality. Guru said that
ਮਃ ੩ ॥
ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਏਹਿ ਨ ਆਖੀਅਨਿ ਬਹਨਿ ਇਕਠੇ ਹੋਇ ।।
They are not said to be husband and wife, who merely sit together.
ਏਕ ਜੋਤਿ ਦੁਇ ਮੂਰਤੀ ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਸੋਇ ॥੩॥
They alone are called husband and wife, who have one light in two bodies. ||3||
I was start fighting with my mind thoughts or self wisdom/ Ego with Guru teachings. I already got successful in it up to very deep extent with grace of God. I am currently living with my parent and other family members in S........., BC. I born in Sikh family but was not sikh by birth. I first studied about spirituality and read Guru Granth with meaning. Later i took Amrit in 2007. I read Guru Granth daily and keep reminding the message all day in my mind to eradicate my ego/self wisdom. I also repeat the name of God to get rid of all the mental, physical and social ailments etc. as said in Guru Granth. Please don’t hesitate to ask any other questions or issues come in your mind after reading my email because we can build up very reliable and high building if foundation is very strong. In the end, i am very loving, caring, adjustable, honest and devoted God fearing Sikh(student/learn er ). I also expect same from my partner especially to heel my wounds by her love and care.